Which Savvy Lover are you?
Follow these simple steps to discover your current Love Archetype and what it's revealing about your patterns in love right now:
1. There are 12 questions below. Take your time to reflect on each question and decide which answer best describes you. No clicking needed, just reflection.
2. As you go, note which letter you choose most often, A, B, C, D or E. That’s your dominant archetype.
3. Enter your details to reveal your archetype and receive a bonus Love Archetype Integration guide.
Follow these simple steps to discover your current Love Archetype and what it reveals about your patterns in love right now:
There are 12 questions below.
1. Take your time to reflect on each one and decide which answer best describes you. No clicking needed, just reflection.
2. As you go, make a note of which letter you choose most often, A, B, C, D or E. That’s your dominant archetype.
3. Enter your details to reveal a breakdown of your archetype and receive a bonus Love Archetype Integration guide.
1. When it comes to love, I often feel…
A. Like I need to anticipate and manage everything so it’s “safe”
B. Like I give too much and rarely feel met
C. Like I have to stay in control or I’ll get hurt
D. Like I crave connection, but chaos keeps showing up
E. Calm, clear, and grounded in my standards
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2. In past relationships, I’ve tended to…
A. Overthink and overanalyse
B. Overgive and accommodate
C. Protect myself with distance
D. Confuse intensity with connection
E. Choose alignment over approval
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3. I most often hold back my truth because…
A. I don’t want to say the “wrong” thing and scare them off
B. I don’t want to seem needy or too emotional
C. Vulnerability doesn’t feel safe yet
D. I fear they’ll leave if I don’t keep things exciting
E. I’ve learned I can express myself and still be loved
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4. My nervous system in love feels…
A. Overstimulated — I’m often in my head
B. Tense — I try to hold it all together for both of us
C. Guarded — hard to relax or trust
D. Spiked — addicted to highs and crashes
E. Regulated — I choose based on inner cues
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5. I tend to attract partners who are…
A. Emotionally unavailable or inconsistent
B. Needing support, soothing, or fixing
C. Emotionally walled off — like me
D. Intense, passionate, but unreliable
E. Grounded, reciprocal, and emotionally available
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6. My biggest fear in love is…
A. Getting it wrong
B. Not being chosen
C. Getting hurt again
D. Getting bored
E. None of the above — I trust my process now
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7. What I desire most is…
A. Ease, clarity, and flow
B. To be cherished without overgiving
C. To feel safe enough to be seen
D. Deep, grounded passion
E. Love that reflects my truth and energy
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8. When someone shows real interest in me…
A. I immediately start thinking about all the ways it could go wrong
B. I feel pulled to give more than I probably should
C. I keep a little distance until I know I can trust them
D. I lean in fast — it feels exciting when it’s intense
E. I stay curious, but grounded — I let things unfold naturally
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9. My relationship with boundaries looks like…
A. I set them mentally but struggle to communicate them clearly
B. I rarely set them — I don't want to hurt anyone’s feelings
C. I keep strong walls up, even if I want closeness
D. I test them — I want freedom, but also crave reassurance
E. I hold them with grace — clear, kind, and rooted in self-trust
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10. When things feel uncertain in dating or love…
A. I analyse the situation from every angle
B. I double down on effort to make it work
C. I retreat and self-isolate to protect my heart
D. I ride the emotional wave and hope for the best
E. I take space to tune into what feels aligned for me
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11. In my healthiest relationships, I feel…
A. Seen, heard, and understood without needing to explain everything
B. Loved for who I am, not just what I give
C. Emotionally safe and supported enough to relax
D. Passionate, free, and accepted in my depth
E. Honoured, mirrored, and energetically met
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12. The belief I’m actively unlearning is…
A. “If I do it all right, I’ll be chosen”
B. “If I give enough, they’ll love me back”
C. “If I stay distant, I can stay safe”
D. “If it’s not intense, it’s not love”
E. “I ever had to earn love in the first place”
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